Conception is a natural human instinct and right that cannot be arranged by itself. The rate of spontaneous abortion was 24% after 1 spontaneous abortion, 26% after 2 spontaneous abortion, and 32% after 3 spontaneous abortion [6]. So patients with recurrent spontaneous abortion are very worried about another abortion after conception. They want to be pregnant, and afraid of being pregnant, showing tension and anxiety before pregnancy, and worry and fear after pregnancy. According to this characteristic, medical staff should first stabilize their emotions, explain the consequences of excessive anxiety, and give them pre-pregnancy guidance. For example, once pregnancy is discovered, they should seek medical treatment as soon as possible, monitor in time, and use drugs rationally [7].

“Karma for SINS committed in previous lives” is deeply rooted in the minds of some people. They look coldly at, blame, and make their heart sad, so they feel self-reproach, guilt, and unworthiness. For this point of view, first of all, to guide the tree, the correct outlook on life, values, treat oneself check it, have a correct understanding of disease of superstition, forgive, for they create the opportunity to reduce pressure, and discuss the basic knowledge of infertility, answer various questions, introduce the same cases cured, relieve mental pressure [8].

As a result of the influence of the old traditional concept, some people often put infertility of all the reasons to blame on the woman. The sarcasm of in-laws, the indifference of husbands and the sneers of neighbors cause the women’s extreme psychological depression, causing them to be depressed, sad and endocrine disorders. Husbands can’t understand their wives’ feelings, and some of them are even faced with the trouble that their families may break up [9]. In the face of such a heavy blow, first of all, the woman should be provided with an appropriate opportunity to vent, and at the same time, the husband and his family should do their job well. The necessity of both husband and wife seeing a doctor at the same time should be emphasized, and the cooperation and communication between the couple should be induced in spirit to avoid mutual criticism, so as to ensure a smooth, accurate and rapid diagnosis and treatment.

Unable to have a healthy child, women’s self-esteem is severely damaged, they have no interest in social activities, and refuse to socialize and interact with family. In view of this psychology, first of all, opportunities are created to communicate with them [10]. Pay special attention to the emotional communication with them, first of all to respect, care, equality, gentle attitude to be their friends, understand their hobbies, personality and habits, encourage the initiative to communicate with people, with parents, friends, relieve pressure, so that the lonely heart gradually into the society.

Especially for rural patients, the lack of sexual knowledge combined with the torture of frequent examinations, treatments and surgeries aggravates mental stress, leading to low sexual desire and sexual dysfunction in some couples [11]. Both sides have fear of sexual life, forming a vicious circle. In the face of this psychological state, take relaxation therapy, let them participate in sports and sports activities, do what they like to do, the attention from the pain or depression of the state of transfer, so that the psychological pressure can be effectively relieved, restore the normal state of life.

I want to have a healthy child of my own, and to prove that I am a normal human being and have normal fertility. Past misfortunes have placed all hope in this pregnancy, anxious for the healthy development of the fetus and worried about its ability to carry on. The psychological pressure aggravates, longs for treatment to be effective.

In many areas, especially in some rural areas, the idea of carrying on the family line is deeply rooted. Under the influence of traditional Chinese concepts and social customs, they are forced to bear the pressure from many people around them, especially from relatives and friends within the family, mainly from their spouses and parents. Studies have shown that the lower the mood of patients and family members, the greater the pressure patients bear [12]. This undoubtedly makes infertile patients bear a lot of pressure.

The limited psychological capacity of patients to their own disease is also a source of this pressure. The frequency, duration and etiology of abortion, family background and treatment process all affect the pressure suffered by patients, etc. It has been found that patients admitted that they were very nervous during the treatment process, even affecting sleep and diet [13]. Many pregnant women show increased stress and fear in the weeks after the last miscarriage; Fear that this pregnancy will have the same outcome as the last one.

Family living environment and economic sources of restrictions, make the pregnant women in the hospital for fetal treatment psychological production of a sense of guilt, for fear of this fetal failure. Money is wasted. Make the family that is not rich already worse.

Social support is an important factor affecting psychological problems during pregnancy. Wu Yuanping et al. [14] found in their survey that pregnant women’s interpersonal sensitivity and anxiety are negatively correlated with social support, that is, the higher the level of social support, the more sensitive the interpersonal relationship is and the less anxiety symptoms are. The incidence of prenatal depression was significantly negatively correlated with emotional support, material support, information support and evaluation support during pregnancy.

First of all, medical staff can respect and care for patients, and protect patients’ self-esteem and privacy. In the treatment, nursing process to give spiritual comfort, reduce their fear of pregnancy. To build a harmonious doctor-patient relationship, health education including carefully provide sufficient information for patients, to discuss their expectations, after and treatment on the disease development outlook, share the treatment may be forming pressure to them, to make patients in mental comfort and emotional stability [15]. For patients with recurrent abortion, due to repeated abortion and treatment, they lack confidence in this pregnancy and have heavy misgivings [16]. For its coke Liao, depression, pessimism and worry; Make friends with them talk, let them say psychological words, give more sympathy, support and encouragement, inform the patient about my section of the treatment of recurrent abortion and successful examples, in order to stabilize pregnant women’s psychology, establish confidence. Use good language, sincere attitude, and avoid rigid preachy introduction. Make patients feel warm and secure from our language, behavior and behavior, so as to eliminate the discomfort brought by unfamiliar environment to patients. Through communication with patients, in order to understand the psychological state of patients in the shortest time, timely eliminate adverse psychological factors that are not conducive to pregnancy, understand and protect the privacy of patients, remove concerns, grasp the proper balance, create a relaxed and happy atmosphere, guide pregnant women to increase interest in activities.